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When we moved to Montréal together after high school, I never thought that either one of us would miss the shiftlessness of sand.  I never thought that either one of us would drown without the ocean.  I never thought that either one of us would stay in Nova Scotia, but I never even considered that one of us might leave Montréal.  It took me years to notice that you didn't love Montréal the way I did.  You never made friends there the way I did, although you never lost them there the way I did either. When you said you wanted to move to Vancouver I thought, "Wasn't one ocean enough for you?", but my mouth was thick with sand and so I could not speak.  At the time neither one of us knew that no two oceans were exactly alike.   | 
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